Men and women need to have some type of understanding of why they are responsible for their own repressed desires and memories that influence their behavior and personality towards one another. There are things a man and woman can and can not do as an individual and to one another. We have to love and know ourselves first before getting into a relationship. These are questions we need to consider while in a relationship or before getting into one. Will the person you choose to be with be good enough for you? Will you be able to forgive and take them back if they cheated on you? Will you be able to handle someone leaving you for someone else? Do you feel you are being taken for granted and wasting time on someone who will never love you whole heartily? Are you having second thoughts about the person you are with?